Adopting an older or rescue pet can be an incredibly rewarding experience. By offering a home to an animal in need, you are giving them a second chance at a safe and loving life and creating a space for another pet in the rescue or shelter.
However, moving to a new home can be a big adjustment for any pet. Adult dogs and cats may have lived in previous homes or spent time in rescue centres, so they may need patience and support while they adapt to their new surroundings.
Some pets settle quickly, while others need more time to feel confident and relaxed. With preparation and a calm approach, you can help your new companion feel safe and secure in their new home.
The golden rule for pets settling into a new home is to allow them to come to you, when they are ready. If they seek pets or affection, only give it for a few seconds at a time, then stop to see if they want more. Don’t be offended if they want to move off, they are just getting to know you, and this is the best way you can build trust – by respecting their space. It’s only natural to want to shower them with love, especially if you know they haven’t had a great start to life, but that can be very overwhelming for most pets initially. Letting them seek you out rather than the other way around is the greatest gift you can give a rescue pet as you are putting their needs before your own.

A new home can feel overwhelming for an adopted pet. Although it may be exciting for the family, your pet may feel uncertain at first.
Keeping the environment calm during the first few days can make a big difference. Try to avoid loud noises, gatherings or visitors while your pet is settling in.
Some owners find that pheromone diffusers or calming products can help pets relax in unfamiliar surroundings.
All pets benefit from having a quiet place where they can rest undisturbed.
For dogs, this might be a comfortable bed or crate in a calm part of the house. For cats, providing hiding places or elevated resting areas can help them feel secure.
Family members should avoid disturbing your pet when they are resting in this space. Allowing them to retreat when they feel overwhelmed helps them build confidence in their new environment.
It can be tempting to give your new pet access to the entire house straight away. However, it is often better to introduce the home gradually.
Start by allowing access to one or two quiet rooms. Once your pet appears relaxed and comfortable, you can slowly introduce other areas of the house.
Using baby gates for dogs or keeping doors closed can help manage this process.
Even pets that were previously house trained may have accidents when they first arrive in a new home. Stress and unfamiliar surroundings can temporarily disrupt their routine.
If accidents happen, remain calm and avoid punishment. Instead, provide regular opportunities for dogs to toilet outside and reward them when they do.
For cats, ensure there are enough litter trays available and that they are placed in quiet, easily accessible locations.
Animals often settle more quickly when they have a predictable daily routine.
Try to keep feeding, exercise and rest times consistent. Regular walks for dogs and structured playtime for cats can also help them feel more comfortable.
If your pet has come from a rescue centre or previous home, ask about their existing routine and try to maintain it initially where possible.
If you already have pets at home, introductions should be done gradually and carefully.
Allow animals to become familiar with each other’s scent first and supervise all early interactions closely. Providing separate food bowls, sleeping areas and resources can help prevent tension during the adjustment period.
Some animals will become comfortable quickly, while others may need more time.
Newly adopted cats should be kept indoors for several weeks before being allowed outside. This gives them time to recognise their new home as a safe place.
Before allowing outdoor access:
When first allowing outdoor access, choose a quiet time of day and allow your cat to explore gradually.
Every rescue pet has their own history and experiences. Some may settle within days, while others may take several weeks or longer to feel fully comfortable.
Patience, consistency and gentle guidance will help your pet build trust and confidence in their new home.
If you have any concerns about your pet’s behaviour or health, your veterinary practice can offer advice or refer you to a qualified dog trainer, as your new companion settles into family life.
Some rescue organisations offer life-long behavioural advice when you adopt a pet from them, so don’t forget to ask about this before you take your new pet home.